Thursday, July 29, 2021

Dear Campus girl,Get to know your worth

"Men want beautiful women,Women want men with money".This is a stereotype that hold true for both rich and poor,young and old,high school dropouts and university graduates and even those who who think they're hot and those who think they aren't.I can't also deny because it's evident that most of our fellows in campus are trying to prove the truth behind this phrase,,and this has ruined our reputation alot as university girls.

Will men ever believe that Money can't buy love when the rich old men are now using cash to buy sex and loyalty from Campus and job-seeking girls?
Many girls are going out with old men on and off campus inorder to live the good life.You want extra pocket money,great clothes and everything a girl would want.You choose to date a older but loaded man,driven by the desire to live large and keep bragging that they want you because you offer good and tasty sex that their wives nolonger offer.

Others forget that they came to campus to read.Only by meeting your fellow comrade who maybe is somehow financially stable,now you get lured and you just cohabit with the guy and become his "wife".So you stay in the room to clean,cook and wash for him instead of going to class.You mess up your life for a guy who will finally finish school and leave you behind.Are you worth this little? 

Some  are also married men who want a girl for a mistress.They only want sex and fun and you get stuff and money in the bergain.Do you sometimes ask yourself this question,like This man is married and to a woman like me,Do I want to be played the same way this guy wants to play his wife with me? Then if you decide to do it, Remember Karma is a bitch and she has teeth.
When  someone later on does that on you,you've no right to complain since what goes around,comes around.

As a lady,I think the source of someone's income doesn't play any role in their attractiveness to romantic partners.I would rather prefer a mate who earn their income over those who simply have money.The ability of a man to acquire a steady supply of income through direct efforts reflects certain underlying qualities such as intelligence and strong work ethic..It's better to be more interested in a man's earning capacity,than the size of his wallet,otherwise we will soon lose our respect and also value as ladies.

Remember,the morning after pills or contraceptives are not piritons.We all know that they can mess up our body,there are also more serious things than pregnancy...STDs,HIV and AIDS are real.
#Dont follow the croud trying to fit in only because you don't want to be odd.Some of the decisions we make may have long life consequences....
Don't risk your life by selling your soul  for a few thousand shillings.
Be careful,otherwise you'll be forced to forgive someone who wasn't sorry,and accept an apology you never received

Thursday, July 1, 2021

The Meaning of Consent.

Consent occurs when one person agrees to the proposal or desire of the other.in a dating relationship, consent is when partners mutually agree to sexual activity which may include hugging, kissing, touching or sex. Both of them must be consenting.

It also means respecting boundaries and never making assumptions. Don't just assume that your partner is comfortable with actions. It requires a clear and enthusiastic yes-meaning if someone seems unsure, stays silent, doesn't respond, or says "maybe" they aren't saying yes. The absence of "no" infact doesn't mean "yes."

Just because I'm in a relationship with you, it doesn't mean that you have permissions to have sex with me anytime you feel like. Infact before being sexual with me, you've to know if I also want to be sexual with you. Both of us must agree to sex- every single time for it to be consensual.
It's also important to be honest with your partner about what you want and what you don't want.

Consent can't be implied by what I'm wearing or things like my past behaviour.
Regardless of me being naked or wearing clothes like miniskirts doesn't imply that I'm craving for sex or any kind romance.

 Consent should be communicated. I think I have the final say over what happens with my body. It doesn't matter if I had hooked up before or even if I said yes earlier and then changed my mind. I have the right to say "stop" at anytime and my partner needs to respect that.

It doesn't exactly mean that for it to be a sexual violence a weapon has to be involved. The victim doesn't have to have fought back, screamed or said no repeatedly. 

Any sexual activity without consent (including oral sex, genital touching and vaginal or anal penetration) is a sexual assault or rape.
Most of sexual assaults don't happen to strangers in dark alleyways. Often it's someone the victim knows or even a romantic partner.

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